The secret to getting what you want, is to ask for exactly what it is you want. Spending the holiday season without my family close by is difficult. Sometimes, I feel a little bit sad. Having a husband that doesn't celebrate the season like I do can also be challenging, but how is he supposed to know that? So, I told him. I told him that I am having a difficult time and I would really like for him to be with me this weekend doing ... (whatever it is I wanted to do). He listened, he understood and he obliged. I have no interest in waiting for him to read my mind. I have interest in being happy.

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