May 23, 2011

To move on from something or someone can be outrageously challenging. There is comfort in the usual. Even when the usual is painful and annoying, it still feels "normal". Everyone says "it will get better" or "you deserve better" and you want to believe it... but do you? Or is that where the fear of moving on comes from? The fear that it actually will not get any better than this. This is why time after time, choices are made that bring people right back to the same situation, the same feeling. You are continuously being given the opportunity to break the cycle, to change what "always happens to you".

Guess what actually can happen to you? Any freakin' thing you want!!